Maryland Military Divorce Attorney

Military divorces can be especially difficult to navigate on your own, as they involve rules and regulations that are unique to them. Having an attorney on your side can provide you with valuable knowledge and resources throughout the legal process, as well as peace of mind. 

If you or your spouse is in the military and needs assistance handling a divorce, contact our family law attorney at Shah & Kishore. Our attorney is well-versed in this area of law, and we also provide military discounts for those in the military. Contact us today to schedule a free case consultation to learn more.

How Shah & Kishore Can Help You

Shah & Kishore is a family law firm in Maryland that is committed to delivering peace of mind to its clients. We are an experienced and aggressive team that will work hard to find you the best solution for your situation – and we will do this in the most efficient and cost-effective manner possible. 

Our firm partner, Rahul Kishore is a trained mediator and experienced Maryland family law attorney who is prepared to handle high-conflict custody battles. In addition, his wife is active military and our firm offers a military discount for those who are in the military. Our firm is dedicated to helping military families who are facing family disputes, including custody and divorce. 

Specific Military Divorce Laws

Military divorces are different than civilian divorces in that they are governed by laws specific to the military. These laws are intended to protect members of the military while they are on active duty and can delay divorce proceedings. 

  • Servicemembers Civil Relief Act:This federal law protects members of the military from having lawsuits filed against them while they are on active duty – including divorce. While this law does not end proceedings, it does postpone them until the service member is available. Under this law, a military divorce can be postponed for the entire time a spouse is on active duty. Protections begin with the date of active duty and last until 30 to 90 days after the service member is discharged.
  • Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act (USFSPA): This law offers financial protection to certain spouses of service members, but only if they pass the“ten-year test.”To receive a portion of the military spouse’s retired pay, they must have been married to the military spouse for at least 10 years while they were on active duty.

Military Bases in Maryland

To file for a military divorce in Maryland, at least one member of the military couple must reside in or be stationed at a military base in Maryland. 

Military bases in Maryland include:

  • Fort Meade 
  • Warfield Air National Guard Base 
  • Joint Base Andrews-Naval Air Facility Washington
  • Aberdeen Proving Ground
  • Fort Detrick
  • Indian Head NSWC
  • NAS Patuxent River
  • National Naval Medical Center
  • Naval Support Facility Thurmont 
  • Navy Information Operations Command Maryland
  • NSS Annapolis
  • NSWC Carderock Division
  • United States Naval Academy, Annapolis 

Frequently Asked Questions About Military Divorce in Maryland

Military divorce in Maryland presents unique challenges that differ from traditional civilian divorces. Service members and their spouses must navigate both state domestic-relations laws and specific federal protections that apply when one party is on active duty. Below are some of the most frequently asked questions about military divorce in Maryland, and the key information you should know before

How is a military divorce different from a civilian divorce in Maryland?

While Maryland’s standard divorce laws still apply, military divorces involve additional considerations—such as jurisdiction, active-duty protections, residency rules, and division of military pensions under federal law. The Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA) also provides safeguards that prevent service members from being disadvantaged if military duties interfere with their ability to participate in divorce proceedings.

Where can a military divorce be filed?

Jurisdiction is often one of the most confusing aspects. For military families, a divorce may typically be filed in:

  • The state where the service member is legally domiciled
  • The state where the service member is stationed
  • The state where the spouse resides

In Maryland, at least one spouse must meet the state’s residency requirements. If the service member is stationed in Maryland, that alone may be sufficient to establish residency for divorce purposes.

Does the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA) affect the divorce process?

Yes. The SCRA protects active-duty military members from default judgments if they cannot appear in court due to deployment, training, or operational commitments. Courts may delay (or “stay”) proceedings until the service member is available. This ensures that neither party is unfairly disadvantaged by military obligations.

How are military pensions divided in a Maryland divorce?

Military pensions are subject to division as marital property under Maryland law, but federal rules—specifically the Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act (USFSPA)—control how payments are administered. Key points include:

  • Maryland courts can divide the pension regardless of the length of marriage.
  • A former spouse can receive direct payments from DFAS only if the marriage overlapped with at least 10 years of military service (the “10/10 rule”).
  • Courts may also award a portion of Thrift Savings Plan (TSP) retirement funds.

It’s important to understand that division of military retirement benefits is often one of the most significant financial aspects of a military divorce.

How does deployment or relocation affect child custody?

Maryland courts prioritize the child’s best interests, but they also recognize the unique nature of military service. Parenting plans for military families often include:

  • Provisions for long-distance visitation
  • Temporary custody modifications during deployment
  • Communication schedules using video calls, email, and messaging
  • Plans for reinstating custody after deployment ends

Importantly, Maryland law prevents courts from using deployment alone as a negative factor in determining custody.

Are military benefits like TRICARE or base privileges affected by divorce?

Yes, but eligibility depends on the length of the marriage and service. The “20/20/20 rule” grants full benefits if the marriage lasted 20 years, the service member served at least 20 years, and the periods overlapped for 20 years. Shorter overlaps may still entitle a former spouse to limited benefits under the 20/20/15 rule.

Does child support or alimony work differently for service members?

Maryland calculates support using state guidelines, but military pay includes multiple components—base pay, BAS, BAH—that must be accounted for. Each branch of the military also has internal regulations to ensure service members meet support obligations.


Military divorce in Maryland can be complex, but understanding how federal protections, military benefits, and state law interact can help both spouses navigate the process with confidence. If you have additional questions, consulting an attorney experienced in Maryland military divorce is often the best next step.

Contact Our Maryland Military Divorce Lawyer Today

To learn more about filing a military divorce in Maryland and how we can help your case, contact our Maryland divorce lawyer at Shah & Kishore today. Call our law firm at (301) 315-0001 or contact Shah & Kishore online to schedule a free case consultation.